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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 08:01

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

No country for ugly people…

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Artists get better with age, e.g., painting. Yet when it comes to pop music, the famous work tends to be written when musicians are in their twenties. So, why aren't Bob Dylan or the Stones banging out amazing tunes now?

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

My ex got into a relationship within 2 weeks after a breakup. What should I do?

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

How do women feel when they are in love?